生活不能没有规则。尊重和遵守规则是一种教养、一种风度、一种文明,是一个现代人必备的品格。

没有这些,人便无法在社会上生存和立足。没有规则,社会也无法得到和谐与安宁。

我们来看“教”字是一个“孝”在前面,"文″字在后面。其实"孝”才是教育的起点和基础。

《弟子规》中说“有余力,则学文″。有余力去做学问,可如果前面的孝悌都没有做到,有什么资格去学后面的?

在古代选皇帝的继承人,皇帝和大臣首先考虑的是孝悌,以德为主,然后才是智商和才能。可见孝悌在一个人品德中的重要性。

现在,作为祖国未来栋梁的我们,都只注重能力和知识的学习,可我们忘了,孝敬父母,才是我们最该学的第一课。

I like Fridays for many reasons, recently I add one more. I enjoy a 50% discount in one bakery on each Fridays in 2018. 

This is funny and attractive, I can taste as much as different favors, and they also provide a special hand to me to help me grind coffee beans.

At the corner of the shop, I found a bunch of Chinese rose is in full blossom. It is so proud and beautiful.

I wish I could be like her and enjoy the worships from the passerby. God bless you.

那是2012年底，做了一个冲动的决定。但在2013年，这一整年的时间里，还是有点迷糊。

下面这张照片，拍于2013年12月的圣诞节，是一次特别的旅行。那里的雪真的好大，好美。

真是一眨眼的功夫，好几年光阴流逝了。

如果可以退到2012年，让我重新做一次选择，也许一切都会不一样吧。说不上来是更好，抑或更差。

人生从来都没有“如果”二字，选择了，就承担所有的结果，不管是好还是坏。

话说，今天好多地方迎来了2018年的第一场雪，也想去看看啊！

今年要变得勤快一点，一周都尽量自已做早餐，早上吃好了，一天的心情都是舒畅的，不是吗？

也特别谢谢东哥，给我寄了好大一箱红薯，吃的时候，味道都觉得特别香，嘻嘻。

How can I visit all these places in 10 days ? I need to plan it now.  Complicated but fun.

2018年，我决定了一件事，如果完成不了，我就喊停！Good luck to May! 

2018年，期待全新的一年！脾气小点，心眼大点，幸福多点，体重轻点，人再美点，一起加油吧，每天进步一点点！Fighting......

喜欢这种感觉的歌曲，民谣！

You said you have one of the regrets for this trip. 

So do I.  I did not find the chance to taste the persimmon.

I will make up my regret one day, will you ?

我很少表达对父母的爱，也许中国人都一样吧，含蓄而内敛。

前几天坐火车时，看到一组不一样的ABC, 想想自已的工作也是天天与这些字母打交道，有点庆幸当初听爸爸的话，苦学了几年英语。

我也知道当时的生活并不是太如意，甚至有一点拮据，可是父母还是挤出了一部分资金让我完成了学业。

当时理解不了那种生活的压力，饭来张口，衣来伸手的日子，对于那时的我来说是理所当然的。

其实，天底下哪里有那么多“理所当然”呢? 都是因为爱才愿意付出吧。

现在出来工作快10年了，10年都是浸泡在ABC中，实在是太幸运了，感谢父母，我爱你们！

It is always good to meet old friends, especially a intimate one . 

Ting is one of my best friends, we are different in many ways, but I still can see something unique and valuable in her, which I am lack of it .

Maybe this is one of the reason we can keep contact for so many years, even we do not contact much usually.

We had wonderful meals and talked about our life. She said her life is back to routine work, just work, home and child. I think this is 80% common people do, but we still need to find something interesting in it and to keep the life fresh and funny, as life is short and quick, we'd better make good use of it .

Well, to me, I think I classify myself to those 20% unusually ones, but I also enjoy life by all means.

We enjoyed our time together and wish us good luck. Merry Christmas, 2017